It comes from insecurity: the caregiver is the one familiar, safe thing in a confusing world. It is exhausting, and it often intensifies in the late afternoon.
Giving the person a simple repetitive task, or leaving a recording of your voice, can buy a few minutes.
Why it matters
It is a leading reason caregivers reach breaking point, because it removes every moment alone.
Questions people ask
What is shadowing in dementia?
Shadowing is when a person with dementia closely follows a caregiver or another person around. A 2023 case report in the Journal of Alzheimer's Disease says the behavior is routinely documented in dementia and is also called clinging, stalking or trailing. Researchers have sometimes grouped it with wandering and sometimes with anxiety-based behaviors, and its causes are still not well understood.
Why do dementia patients follow you around?
People with dementia often follow a caregiver because they feel anxious in a world that has become confusing. A 2023 case report in the Journal of Alzheimer's Disease describes trailing as an effort to avoid being alone, similar to separation anxiety, and links it to difficulty recognizing surroundings. The Alzheimer's Association names fear and fatigue from trying to make sense of a confusing world as causes of anxiety.
What stage of dementia is shadowing?
There is no defined stage for shadowing. A 2023 report in the Journal of Alzheimer's Disease cites one study in which 8.5% of people with dementia shadowed, based on caregiver questionnaires, and another that found trailing in as many as 32% of people with moderate to severe dementia. The report suggests it can occur in typical Alzheimer's disease as well as rarer forms.
How do you deal with shadowing in dementia?
Respond to the anxiety behind it with reassurance and something to do. The Alzheimer's Association's advice for anxiety in dementia includes calming phrases such as 'You're safe here' and 'I will stay until you feel better,' involving the person in activities like music or art, giving their energy an outlet such as a walk, and reducing noise and distraction. A doctor can rule out physical causes.
What is shadowing in Alzheimer's disease?
In Alzheimer's, shadowing means the person closely follows a caregiver or another person. A 2023 report in the Journal of Alzheimer's Disease suggests it may occur in typical Alzheimer's because the disease affects brain regions involved in recognizing the outside world, including visuospatial skills, visual perception and understanding speech. Staying close to a familiar person may help ease the fear that follows.
Sources
Where to check this, and where to read more. All external and all authoritative.
- Alzheimer's Association: Anxiety and agitation
- Shadowing behavior in dementia: a case report, J Alzheimers Dis 2023 (PMC)
Shadowing where you live
The local guide on this, for each city we cover.
- Baltimore, MD
- Boston, MA
- Buffalo, NY
- Charlotte, NC
- Chicago, IL
- Columbus, OH
- Dallas, TX
- Denver, CO
- Detroit, MI
- Houston, TX
- Los Angeles, CA
- Memphis, TN
- Miami, FL
- Milwaukee, WI
- Naples, FL
- New York, NY
- Philadelphia, PA
- Phoenix, AZ
- San Antonio, TX
- San Diego, CA
- Seattle, WA
- Tampa, FL
- Tucson, AZ