Bathing and dressing are the commonest flashpoints, because they involve a stranger touching someone who no longer understands why. Approaching from the front, explaining each step, and slowing down prevent more incidents than anything else.
It is frightening for families and it is not deliberate. It is also a reason to get professional help rather than to persist alone.
Why it matters
A caregiver trained in dementia handles this differently from a willing relative, and the difference shows immediately.
Questions people ask
What is aggression in dementia?
Aggression in dementia is angry behavior that may be verbal or physical. The Alzheimer's Association says it can happen suddenly with no clear reason or follow a frustrating situation, and that the person is not acting this way on purpose. Because dementia can leave them unable to identify or explain physical discomfort, such as pain or an infection, they may express it through aggression.
What causes aggression in dementia patients?
The Alzheimer's Association groups the causes into three kinds. Physical discomfort, including pain, infections such as urinary tract infections, tiredness, hunger, thirst and medication side effects. Environmental factors, such as loud noise, clutter, crowds or unfamiliar people. And poor communication, such as instructions that are too complex, too many questions at once, or the person picking up on a caregiver's stress.
How do you manage aggression in dementia?
Look for the trigger and respond to the feeling, not the facts. The Alzheimer's Association suggests ruling out pain, speaking slowly in a soft tone, limiting distractions, and shifting to a relaxing activity such as music or a walk. If you can do so safely, step away for a moment. If the person cannot calm down, get help, and call 911 in an emergency.
At what stage of dementia does aggression happen?
There is no fixed stage. The National Institute on Aging says people with Alzheimer's may become agitated or aggressive as the disease gets worse, so it is more common as dementia advances. It usually has a cause, such as pain, too little sleep, a sudden change of routine, or too much noise. A medical exam can look for physical problems that may be driving it.
Is there medication for aggression in dementia?
Sometimes, after other causes are checked. The National Institute on Aging says a doctor can examine the person for physical problems behind the aggression and, in certain cases, may prescribe medicine to ease symptoms. It advises talking to a doctor if aggressive behavior worsens, keeping a safe distance during an episode, locking away keys and weapons, and calling 911 in an emergency.
Sources
Where to check this, and where to read more. All external and all authoritative.
- Alzheimer's Association: Aggression and anger
- National Institute on Aging: Coping with agitation, aggression and sundowning
- Alzheimer's Association: Anxiety and agitation
Aggression where you live
The local guide on this, for each city we cover.
- Baltimore, MD
- Boston, MA
- Buffalo, NY
- Charlotte, NC
- Chicago, IL
- Columbus, OH
- Dallas, TX
- Denver, CO
- Detroit, MI
- Houston, TX
- Los Angeles, CA
- Memphis, TN
- Miami, FL
- Milwaukee, WI
- Naples, FL
- New York, NY
- Philadelphia, PA
- Phoenix, AZ
- San Antonio, TX
- San Diego, CA
- Seattle, WA
- Tampa, FL
- Tucson, AZ